Friday, May 21, 2010

After Death

Allah's Messenger [صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم] said: "When a man dies, his good deeds come to an end except three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge and righteous offspring who will pray for him." [Sahih Muslim: 3084]

Al-Nawawi [may Allah have mercy on him] said in Sharh Muslim:

"The scholars said: the meaning of this hadith (above) is that the deeds of the deceased come to an end when he dies, and the renewal of reward ceases for him, except in these three cases, because he is the cause of them: his offspring is counted among his earnings, as is the knowledge that he leaves behind through teaching or writing, and ongoing charity, i.e., a waqf (Islamic endowment)."

The narrations below add further details:

Narrated Abu Hurairah [رضی اللّٰہُ عنہ]: "The Messenger of Allah [صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم] said: "The good deeds that will reach a believer after his death are: knowledge which he learned and then spread; a righteous son whom he leaves behind; a copy of the Qur'an that he leaves as a legacy; a mosque that he built; a house that he built for wayfarers; a canal that he dug; or charity that he gave during his lifetime when he was in good health. These deeds will reach him after his death."
[Ibn Majah: 224]

It was narrated that they slaughtered a sheep at the time of the Prophet [صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم] and gave it in charity except for its shoulder. The Prophet [صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم] asked ‘A'ishah, "What is left of it?" She said: "Nothing is left except the shoulder." He said: "All of it will remain except its shoulder."

[Al-Tirmidhi: 2470]

Consequently, a Muslim must not just persist in doing good deeds while alive, but should also pursue projects that will reap benefit after death. Options for such endeavors are listed below:

  1. Constantly remembering death: One of the best ways to actively do good deeds and leave behind avenues that will continue to benefit after death, is to remember death itself, often and consistently.
  2. Invest money in welfare projects: Whether it's a hospital, school, mosque, domestic shelter or a welfare organization that generally helps the needy, a Muslim should invest some money in it, in order to ensure that the rewards for charity will keep coming even after they have died, when the money they invested continues to benefit others in different ways.
  3. Spread beneficial knowledge through media:

    - Educate another person or teach others a skill; contribute in starting a regular Islamic class. The more students you have, the farther your trail of good deeds will extend after you have left this world.

    "And We record that which they send before (them), and their traces, and all things We have recorded with numbers (as a record) in a Clear Book."
    [Qur'an, Surah Yaseen: 12]

Marhoom Eng.A.R.Thasthakeer Foundation

There has been a forum , comprises parallel junior and seniors of Marhoom Thasthakeer , established on 16.05.2010 to commemorate our late engineer and to carryout welfare services in the long run.

Those who are interested in contributing for the " thasthakeer memorial fund " which is envisioned to serve the poor and talented people's educational uplift, can contact Eng. M.A.M.Rizkhan ( rizkhanm@yahoo.com)

It is important to note that the forum which was mentioned above will function only on ad-hoc basis and the foundation will be established democratically incorporating all the well wishers .

தஸ்தகீர் என்னும் என் நண்பன்


Sunday, 18 April 2010 at 14:38

நீ பிரிந்து விட்டாய்
பொய்..!
நான் கனவு கண்டு
கொண்டிருக்கிறேன் .

இவ்வாறு ஒரு பக்கம்
தேற்றிக் கொள்ள உன் முகம்
எண்ணத்திரையில் விழுந்து
சிரிக்கிறது.

ஆனால் யதார்த்தம்
உறைக்கும் போது
விழித்திரையில்
நீர் முட்டுகிறது .


கடைசியாய் உன்னுடன்
போனில் பேசிய வார்த்தை
தஸ்தகீர் ..
உடம்பைக் கவனித்துக் கொள்

கடைசியாய் நீ
என்னிடம் பேசிய வார்த்தை போனில்
"மச்சான் எனக்கு
இப்ப பரவாயில்லை "



நீ எனக்கும்
நான் உனக்கும்
படிப்பித்த காலங்களை
நினைக்கும் போது
எனக்கு நெஞ்சு
வெடிக்கப் பார்க்கிறது .

அது ஆண்டு பத்திலிருந்து
கம்பஸ் வரை
தொடர்ந்தது
ஆனால் இன்று
பெரிய படிப்பெல்லாம்
படித்த உனக்கு
எனக்குச் சொல்லித்தர
கொடுப்பினை இல்லை


தொழில் தேவைகளால்
2003 இற்குப் பின்
நாம் இருவரும் சேர்ந்து
செலவளித்த நேரம்
கூட்டிக்கழிக்க
ஓர் ஒன்றரை மணித்தியாலங்கள்
இருக்கும்
ஆங்காங்கே திருமணங்களிலும்
மையத்து வீடுகளிலும்

ஆனால் ஒரு மாதத்திற்கு முன்னர்
ஜுனைதீனின்
ஜனாசாவை எதிர்பார்த்து
அக்கரைப்பற்றில்
எதேச்சையாய் சந்தித்த போது
வழமைக்கு மாற்றமாய்
ஒரு மணித்தியாலத்திற்கும் மேல்
கழித்தோம்

அது விதியா ?

நான் சொன்னேன்
மச்சான் நீ பாஸ்டா
நான் தான் கிடந்து
கஷ்டப்படுகிறேன் ..

அதுக்கு நீ சொன்ன பதில்
நீ ஓடி வந்து
பிடித்து விடுவாய்..

அதுக்காகவா
இப்படி அசுர வேகத்தில்
போய்ச் சேர்ந்திருக்கிறாய்

அடிக்கடி இது
நினைவுக்கு வருவதால்
இன்றிரவு எனக்குத்தூக்கமில்லை

எங்கே நீ போய் விட்டாய் ..
என் நெஞ்சு கிடந்து பதைக்கிறது


Eng.Thasthakeer Msc.Eng. C.Eng is no longer with us


Saturday, 17 April 2010 at 02:42





The great loss
:-

Finally the shocking bad news reached us that our beloved friend Eng.Thasthakeer is no longer with us ,let us pray for his triumph in the endless next life .


Thasthakeer has completed his Masters and Chartered and has become the Best performer amongst the Zahirian '96 batch at the time of his demise , he had an excellent track record in his career, he was one of those self -educated scholars of Kalmunai Zahira College. He did his best for his school and university by volunteering teaching of mathematics and serving as the seceretary of Peradeniya University Muslim Majlis.

In his professional career he reached the best position considering his age and experience , he was promoted to Project Manager level and was praised as one of the most efficient construction Managers.His fame was reached to the top level construction planners as he has completed one two storied building with in 48 days.

His Teachinng Career :-


Thasthakeer possess natural talents in teaching ,he started teaching well before Ordinary level , a specialist teacher of mathematics for the weak peer students ,After O/L and upto 2nd Year of A/L he continued to teach Mathematics Voluntarily in the weekend school called "Ahadiyya". After A/L exams he actively involved in conducting classes for poor students on a full time basis , he conducted seminars for O/L students and Published model examination papers.He encouragred me also in teaching and we both taught mathematics for O/L students in our school Kalmunai Zahira College .

He did not stop teaching after his graduation , he had been serving as the visiting lecturer at Akkaraippattu Technical College.

Talents and Qualities :-

He is one of the self taught learner . Never worried about attending classes or lecturers, I admired his will power when facing exams, he can score more than average by last minutes preparations . I can witness this more as I was his room mate through out the university , O/L and A/L. We started ( actually he pioneered ) combine studies in '92 ( year 10 ) and we both have taken equal best performance in '93 O/L results .

His family respected our friendship that is the reason we both were able to succeed in the secondary education.His Grand Mother and his uncles always care about both of us, they encourage both of us to study together as they believed in the spirit of our friendship.

Thasthkeer is not only shined in Curricular activities ,he showed his colors in sports even, he was the "hitter" opener for our class team .

Unique Characteristics :-


Thasthakeer is a fighter; he will be there for his cause encouraging his mates, he never lost confidence
whether it is watching cricket or studying for exams or managing construction , ( His closed friends would say how he watched cricket up to the last ball , he never quit his confidence in halfway, whatever the position his team is ) Another example is fighting to re-schedule '98 A/L exam after allegations made by students ; we succeeded in that mission.


Our duty :-

Let us pray Almighty God to reward him the "Jannathul Firthowse" the paradise promised by Allah for righteous and pious.

My friend is no longer there , I am at despair ,please forgive him if he made any mistakes to anyone of you in the past, Pray for his Aakira and prepare ourselves also to the straight path shown by Islam.


Eng .Jowsi and Friends ( after the 35th day of the "wafath")